思ったことを書き綴る「自己責任」

みなさんは自分のやってきたことについて考えることはありますか？

イメージ通りにうまくいったこと、そうではなく失敗したこと。特に失敗したことに関しては誰もがあの時こうしていればと思うはずです。どういう結果であれ僕はこういう風に考えるようにしています。

All responsibility lies with you.

これは自分作りをしていく上でもっとも大切な考え方だと思います。

cause things go wrong like others or the environment、There is no self-growth in the person who is blaming it around other than myself.。What's important is、今自分が置かれている環境や状況はすべて今まで自分自身が作りだしてきたという事実を知ることだと思います。

私たちは一日２４時間という時間を平等に与えられています。When you were born,、There's hardly any difference.、As time goes by, there are many differences.。

なぜでしょう？

It's、because what you're thinking is different.。When you think differently, what you do naturally will change.。If、If all we're thinking about is the same、There must be only the same kind of people in the world.。But there are many different people in the world.。The difference is made by choices in various aspects of life.。There are happy and unhappy people in the world.。

Are happy people just lucky?

Are unhappy people just unlucky?

I've had some luck.、I think that's not all.。A happy person chooses to be happy、An unhappy person has chosen somewhere to be unhappy.。The idea of self-responsibility is very important in order not to go out of your way to choose unhappiness.。

There is always someone who appears at the scene of a nasty incident in his life.。it's myself。つまりその事件の引き起こしている、The real culprit is himself.。For some reason, human beings are sweet only to themselves.、It's easy to forget your existence.。Why is it only for me to blame others for why this nasty thing happens to me?、The same kind of nasty incident happens over and over again、Nothing will change your life.。

Try blaming yourself for everything you've ever blamed on people and others.。There are hints of self-growth hidden there.。What matters is not who is bad or what is bad.。It's important not to have the same nasty incident again.。Others and the environment around you can't change directly with your power.。You can change it directly.、It's just me.。

もう一度言います。

All responsibility lies with you.

これから進む道を決断したことは自分の責任であると思うことはとても大切なことなのです。